I have a friend named Soraya, and she is a Palestinian who has lived most of her life in Yafo. Soraya and I have a class on global political ideologies together at TAU, and often we go to lunch or to the beach.
I look more Arab than Soraya, I think! So people think she is Jewish. They think nothing is unique when we get falafel. She speaks Hebrew perfectly. But she is not Jewish. She is Muslim. She is Palestinian. And she is my friend.
Soraya is open for mind, wishes for peace, has lost one brother and two cousins in the war. She loves cooking, swimming, and playing piano. We have much in common.
So when I hear people, mostly non-Israelis, talk about how “evil scum” are the Palestinians, how all Muslims deserve to die, how all Muslims are terrorists, I am hurt. If someone says, “All Jews are evil!” we all get so angry. Anti-Semtisim! Naziism! But when people say, “All Muslims are evil!” this is all okay?
It is not okay. How dare people say this. G-d did not create us so we could hate. He created us for love and humanity, and generalizing a group of people is wrong. It was wrong in 1939, and it is wrong in 2010. No conflicts will end by us hating.
And you know what, why should the Palestinians care about Jewish history in Israel? This means nothing to a 14 year old Palestinian boy whose family has nothing because their only representation is a radical government feeding off of corruption. Of course he is angry at the Israelis! The Palestinians were driven off the land. Most live still in refugee camps. They are represented by Hamas, which is run by bullies, and Fatah, which is incompetant. Do you think they care about Jewish “right” to the land? Of course not. Why should they?
I love Israel. I love being a Jewish Israeli. But we need a new strategy. We cannot keep thinking of Palestinians as savage animals that annoy us. They are people, they are impovershed, and it is partly our fault. There are some horrible Palestinians terrorists, they have done some horrible things, but by villianizing the entire Palestinian people we are just as bad.